(originally posted on 9/7)
“The saggy armchair of cliches. It’s all right, millions of bottoms have sat here before me. the springs are well worn, the fabric smelly and familiar” (Written on the Body, p.10).
This was the quote that caught my attention. I find it interesting that the narrator is talking about how safe love can feel when clearly it is not guaranteed and can change at any moment. I do find it funny that it is in the cliches that we find this comfort. Like the narrator says later, we long for those familiar words and gestures that we associate with love, but they are the most unoriginal things we can possibly do to show how much we do care for people. The narrator is challenging us to look at these cliches and see how they control what we know love to be. It is interesting to see how the narrator is kind of stepping back into the cliches though. It is almost contradicting what was previously said.
“Frighten me? Yes you frighten me. You act as though we will be together forever” (Written on the Body, p. 18).
I felt this quote really expressed what the narrator was trying to get across earlier on. The narrator is afraid because their love is getting too comfortable in the relationship. They are relying on that “saggy armchair of cliches” too much and are blind to the fact that the relationship can change. It is this security in the familiar feeling of a relationship that the narrator warns about. Maybe this narrator wants to rip apart this old armchair and reupholster it with something new and more realistic. I think this narrator is challenging the readers to reupholster our ideas of love.
